Maybe I should rephrase my question about spark on a budget!?

I know that money doesn't buy love but we have a 9 month old and we are due in April with the second yeah we didn't plan it but we are very excited but we have been so stressed out lately we just moved and we both work full time and I work a crazy schedule so having the moments are hard to do that's why I was asking for ligitamate ways of rekindling the spark that you loose while your life your forming with each other! And for you rude mo fos we have been together for two years and our child is with each other and this one is ours too! I didn't have a baby already and I have only felt like cheating because we are fighting all the time and you get the attention from someone who understands you get the tempation but that's why I want to try and make him realize that I want to be with him and no one else and yeah I know that money may not help that but helps to pay for a babysitter and get out of the house together I don't want advise on how horrible a person I am for feeling this way!