My Fiance isn't meeting my emotional needs - what to do?

He never says anyting nice or anything to make me feel loved. So, I don't feel turned on ually at all. Sometimes we have but I do it just to make him happy and that's it because I am 'not feeling it' with him. I need to feel loved for the to be good. I need more romance. I am afraid he may just leave me if I bring all this up, but I also can't live the rest of my life like this. How do I bring this subject up with him? How do I get him to understand that for me, it's emotional not physical that gets me ? When he initiates , he starts kissing and I am not turned on at all. I have the ability to be turned on, but I realized what the problem is - he isn't meeting my emotional needs and I question his feelings for me and I don't know if he really cares - I need to know he loves me unconditionally and thinks I am attractive - he used to say nice things but it all stopped. I tried to tell him but all he said was ' why doesn't it feel good?'. What to do?